Watching Girls on HBO sporadically for the past few years and watching Lena Dunham's success soar as an actress, writer, producer, director, etc..., I figured the next logical step to understand who she is as a woman and where she came from was to read her recently published book of personal memoirs and essays.
After reading Not That Kind of Girl in two days (thank you mono for giving me nothing to do other than read, catch up on The Vampire Diaries, and sleep) I thought I enjoyed it but ended up feeling stale.
Dunham's book, while being glorified as embarrassingly funny and an honest, fresh view on life just left me feeling sad for her... but also grateful I don't have OCD or HPV or any negatively-impacted acronym.
While Dunham's book is briefly summarized by a "young girl telling you what she has 'learned'", I honestly don't think I learned anything from it. I learned that casual sex in college will give you major anxiety, I learned that some people meet with their therapist four times a week, and I learned that you should always pack extra underwear on trips.
I was attracted to Dunham's novel due to her insane success as a young female in a male--dominated Hollywood world of execs and producers looking for the next hit, regardless of genuine plot or character, just the next big thing to roll in cash. Dunham started making satirical short-films with two friends while working in SoHo after college. After her short films gained notoriety in the arts world of New York, her career seemed to slowly but surely start.
However, a reader wouldn't know any of this from reading her book.
Not That Kind of Girl was filled with dieting logs, sexual exploits starting from a bizarre young age, accounts of drunken nights and coming to grips with her sexuality.
So the success and acclaim of a twenty-something year old female creating, producing, writing, directing and starring in her own HBO television series? Not included.
I was let down and disappointed slightly by Dunham's book.
Granted, it was humorous and an interesting look on another human being's life... but if Lena has "learned" anything after all of these years (as her book blurb suggests she has), I as a reader did not learn anything.
Showing posts with label girls. Show all posts
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12.08.2014
2.24.2014
Click It- Top Picks of the Web
Check out all of my favorite websites, articles, videos, etc. of the moment!
Suitcase Magazine - a mecca of travel, exploration, and lifestyle fashion is Suitcase Magazine. It's one of my favorite websites due to the fact that you learn so much while being entertained and intrigued. Follow the magazine's travels all around the world- meet interesting people and hear their stories.
Urban Outfitters rope-braid tutorial - this is the easiest and prettiest tutorial for a "lived-in" rope-braid. I've done it a couple times, not pinned up but letting the braid fall, and so far it's been quite successful. An easy way to keep your hair back without trying to hard.
Brian Williams' "Rapper's Delight" spoof - as an old school rap fan I couldn't stop laughing as Brian Williams news casting clips rapped to the Sugarhill Gang's famous song. Thank Jimmy Fallon and his crew for taking their time to piece together this hilarious video.
WEWOREWHAT - Danielle Bernstein is basically what all fabulous girls aspire to be when they grow up. What started as her NYC street style inspiration blog blossomed into her personal fashion diary. With thousands of views everyday, Danielle records her outfits each day and her latest style endeavors.
Girls - Okay so this doesn't count as something from the web but... if you haven't watched the show Girls, from HBO, you should. (Warning: prone to excessive nudity and topics that might not make you so comfortable... continue with caution.) This show is so real it hurts. It deals with four girls making it in the city, trying to get by while also staying true to themselves. The eighth episode of this season was talked about on every communications platform (from newspapers to Twitter) so it packed a punch. I won't give it away, but if you have nothing better to do this weekend, start watching!
Suitcase Magazine - a mecca of travel, exploration, and lifestyle fashion is Suitcase Magazine. It's one of my favorite websites due to the fact that you learn so much while being entertained and intrigued. Follow the magazine's travels all around the world- meet interesting people and hear their stories.
Brian Williams' "Rapper's Delight" spoof - as an old school rap fan I couldn't stop laughing as Brian Williams news casting clips rapped to the Sugarhill Gang's famous song. Thank Jimmy Fallon and his crew for taking their time to piece together this hilarious video.
WEWOREWHAT - Danielle Bernstein is basically what all fabulous girls aspire to be when they grow up. What started as her NYC street style inspiration blog blossomed into her personal fashion diary. With thousands of views everyday, Danielle records her outfits each day and her latest style endeavors.
Girls - Okay so this doesn't count as something from the web but... if you haven't watched the show Girls, from HBO, you should. (Warning: prone to excessive nudity and topics that might not make you so comfortable... continue with caution.) This show is so real it hurts. It deals with four girls making it in the city, trying to get by while also staying true to themselves. The eighth episode of this season was talked about on every communications platform (from newspapers to Twitter) so it packed a punch. I won't give it away, but if you have nothing better to do this weekend, start watching!
12.27.2013
Teenage Years are Forever
The way teenagers, myself being a victim to this disease, view the world is in a permenant state. We believe that our formative years will determine our future epically. And we don't realize that hey, maybe the boy you date in high school won't dictate other people's perception of you until you die (shocker, I know).
I was flipping through photographer Petra Collins' spread called "The Teenage Gaze" and I recognized deep emotions on the models' faces that I've seen time and time again across the sea of faces that exist within the walls of my high school.
Faces longing for acceptance. Hoping for love, friendship, and this thing called "fun" that their parents claimed high school was.
Faces of giving up, loneliness, and the everlasting weariness that comes with being a teenager today.
Faces of competition, jealousy, and betrayal. Common girl-on-girl faces even with the closest of friends.
Faces filled with tears, bloodshot eyes, and running makeup. The saddest face of defeat is when it's seen by everyone.
I also love how Petra Collins included photographs of small moments that packed so much emotion. The above photograph displaying "Mommy" calling displayed the constant pull and push of growing adulthood and desire for freedom but also still realizing how much of a child you are still in your teenage years.
I'm so glad that I came across "The Teenage Gaze", it sums up teenage years pretty well in just a few photographs, and it helped me string together my thoughts about high school. Whoever told you that high school is the best years of your life, they were lying. I don't care if it was your mom or a recent graduate, high school is not the best years of your life. The best years of your life are up to you to decide. The best years of your life are based on your own accomplishments, not the recent accomplishments of the football team. But I also have to say, that although I'm talking down about high school and the golden teenage years, there is also fun, love, and life. You just have to find it. Your fun may be different from your best friend's, but don't dismiss your ideas just because it doesn't go along with everyone else's. Find your fun, find your love, and discover life. It may be in the places you never expected.
*All photographs belong to Petra Collins, you can find The Teenage Gaze here.*
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